Our receptionist greeted Martin at the door, he arrived about ten minutes early. He requested a glass of wine and sat nervously looking through the menu.
As I had a couple of things to attend to, our receptionist offered Martin the opportunity to complete a Beginner's Questionnaire. Many people are nervous or embarrassed when having to discuss certain activities so we find this questionnaire assists the novice to know what sort of things he can explore.
At exactly 8 pm. I walked in to meet Martin, who immediately looked up from where he was busily filling in the questionnaire Martin stood immediately and held out his hand.
"How pleased I am to meet you at last Mistress Amanda". We shook hands.
"Pleased to meet you too Martin."
I gestured for Martin to sit as we continued our discussion regarding Martin's first session.
"This questionnaire has made it a lot easier, I had no idea all these things were available. I would never have thought to have been able to ask. I suppose I don't really understand too much about all this. I just know that I have been attracted by the idea of being dominated sexually by a woman for as long as I can remember. I love my wife dearly, but she looks up to me, I am the decision maker in our household, always have been, she would never be able to hit me, order me around, or do anything to me that was painful, she's just not like that, its just not in her nature".
Martin handed me his completed questionnaire. Reading through it I noticed he had not requested anything that required the administration of pain. Many people have the idea that it is a necessary element of a session. I find if new submissives realise there are many ways of being controlled other than having to undergo some painful procedure they are usually more likely to be a bit more adventurous.
Allowing him to shower first, I informed him I would meet him in ten minutes. He was to be kneeling on the floor in the centre of the Main dungeon facing the large mirror.
While Martin showered I chose some appropriate classical music and lit the candles. Music and light help to create a serene atmosphere. The right combination can generate an erotic mood which I find necessary for a mutually enjoyable session. With the mood set I left the dungeon to gather a few personal items I like to use in session which are not kept at hand in the dungeon.
While waiting for Martin to complete his ablutions I was able to check the activities Martin wanted to explore. The questionnaire only requires the submissive to tick the activities he would like to experience in today's session. Martin has chosen to have a lot of erotic content and has requested for the culmination of his session that I enter him with a small strap on dildo.
On entering the dungeon I found Martin in the correct position, however he was still wearing the shower robe. Many slaves have great trouble removing their robe the very first time. It is as though it is the final act in their long awaited submission. I told Martin I wished him to be totally naked, to remove the robe and return to the position which was required of him. He quickly obeyed.
Martin was a thin, frail man. He didn't look as though he would be able to tolerate any painful procedures even if he had wanted to. I took a collar and mittens, placed them on him and hitched his hands to his neck thus making him feel a little more vulnerable. I told him to keep his elbows up and his knees well apart. Martin stayed very still. I walked around him, softly speaking to him as though he was a child: one who had no choice but to obey the more powerful companion.
Standing behind Martin I was able to look straight ahead into the Mirror and see Martin before me, naked, scared and obviously excited.
I reached down and tweaked his nipples, I bent and whispered in his ear the directions I would be giving him to give us both erotic pleasure. I found the nipple stimulation was exciting Martin a great deal. With this in mind I stopped the teasing and told him to quickly stand arms in the same position and legs well apart.
Shakily Martin arose, he spread his legs but they were no where near wide enough. Leg spreaders are in every room. It is much easier to keep a slave in a state of control if they are securely restrained with their legs wide apart. I chose a pair of spreaders which would allow Martin to stand steadily but would also give me complete access to him.
I took his hands from his collar and attached them to the suspension. Raising his arms above his head I was able to have him in a position where I could stand very close. He was unable to move to the left or right and had no choice other than to position himself in the manner I had placed him.
I walked around where I could stand directly in front of Martin. I stood as close as I possibly could and leaned a little into his body.
Unlike many Mistresses I do not like my slaves to look away from me. I believe the eyes are the windows to the soul and I like to make contact with my submissives. If our eyes can never meet, how can we possibly make any sort of real connection, or promote true submission.
Looking directly into his eyes I gently cradled Martin's balls in my hands. Kneading, gently scratching, then finally tying them with cord so they are hard and firm between my fingers.
I continued my attentions to his genitals making sure I did not touch his penis. I sucked, teased and softly nibbled Martin's erect, hard nipples. He would groan from time to time and gently sway in profound pleasure.
During this session Martin had wanted to be introduced to anal stimulation, anal rape, light hand spanking with sexual rewards from the Mistress. The rewards were for my pleasure and I could nominate what I required of him. He was now very sexually aroused and deliciously vulnerable.
Martin was totally restrained. I stood before him slowly stripping, finally standing topless, in nothing but suspenders, stockings and thigh high leather boots. I must admit, feeling free and very comfortable.
I noticed his eyes scan my body, I reached for a blindfold deciding now was the time for some sensory depravation.
I continued to circle him, teasing various parts of his body, using soft sensual implements which give far more of a tickle than a sting. Martin appeared to shiver, he was getting goose bumps even though it was quite warm inside.
I stood before Martin with my breasts under his face, I told him to kiss and gently caress them with his mouth. As Martin greedily obeyed I began to gently spank his bottom. I was able to give Martin a dozen spanks which to his delight he bore with ease and pleasure.
While Martin was still blindfolded I obtained gloves and lube so as I would be ready to enter him for the very first time.
So far I had not touched Martin's penis. I like to keep a slave on a sexual edge, I like to create waves of sexual pleasure which enhance genuine submission. I loosened the cord around Martin's balls. I whispered into his ears the things I would have him do to me, how he could give me pleasure. I then asked Martin to describe to me in detail how he would pleasure me. Again I kneaded his balls, they were now quite hard and high, at this point very sensitive. As we spoke I gently stroked Martin's erect penis. I teased it with a pin wheel, and stroked it again. Martin was breathing hard, he was obviously very excited.
Gently I entered Martin's anus. Slowly and carefully manoeuvring my finger so as I could massage the very core of his sexuality. He gained his objective, to be invaded, without pain: a pleasurable experience.
The atmosphere was alive with sexual energy. With such enthusiasm, age does not interfere with desire. Martin said "If it were to please you Mistress I would love to take 12 more hand spanks." I was happy to administer them as Martin had wanted dearly to be able to take a hand spank without making a fuss.
Now it was time to place Martin spread wide on the whipping horse. This is a wonderful piece for anal rape with a strap on dildo. I released Martin from his position and told him to massage my back and legs and to pleasure me in the manner which we had discussed.
For some time I allowed Martin to pamper me. I felt his hands caress my body, he pleasured me in the manner he had described. Each slave has his own particular ability in which he is proud to please a woman. I believe it fair to give one a chance to prove such ability. I took note of his obvious delight in being able to give pleasure.
"Martin, go and place yourself on the bench in the position I have described for you. I want you to be restrained with your cheeks spread wide and your anus ready for my cock to enter you".
Martin positioned himself while I quickly restrained him. Standing back I saw he was nicely spread it would be easy for me to enter him.
I must say I do enjoy strapping on a cock. I love to prance with my cock, rubbing and stroking it, knowing what power I have with it.
I walk in front of Martin. I am still topless but now have my cock to tease him with as well. I order Martin to suck my breasts and my cock, he does this with noticeable pleasure.
I enter Martin again with my finger, adding more lube to make my entry easy and sensual. I massage him internally and stroke his penis which is exposed beneath him, swollen, dark and dribbling, ready to be milked.
We have many different sized dildos. For a virgin such as Martin the smallest is appropriate. I stroke and softly scratch his back distracting him a little, all the time gently inserting the dildo further inside him.
With my bare breasts against his back, our sweat uniting our bodies, I fuck him with my dildo, again and again. With a free hand I reach down and manipulate his penis. Milking him is no effort. He groans, becomes limp and is totally speechless.
I remove his shackles, he stays very still. He then reacts as though he has been awaken from a deep sleep.
"Thank you Mistress, I am very grateful. Many people had me believe all this B&D stuff was about being whipped, beaten and spat upon. I had no idea how such an experience could be so erotic. I am sorry it took me so long to have a go; don't know what I was afraid of. Better late than never I suppose."
Martin is one of many who have discovered that being involved in a BDSM experience is definitely not necessarily painful. By choosing to answer our questionnaire Martin was able to nominate without embarrassment the activities he wanted to try and knew exactly what it would cost. For a novice this is the best way not to spend way beyond abilities (many novices tend to overspend). As there are so many different aspects to BDSM this is definitely the best approach to guarantee you only experience the activities in which you have a personal interest. Martin's interest in penetration is shared by many but definitely not all novices.