The following scenario was given to me by Jason, a thirty five year old novice who had been thinking about submitting to a female dominant for a long time.
Jason has many ideas as to how he personally views submission stating how eager he is willing to learn. He confesses to being fairly ignorant, having many fantasies but no real experience. He informs me he is willing to learn as much as he can as it is something which has been haunting him since his early twenties.
Not everyone feels the same towards submission as Jason. Each of us have our own ideas regarding the way we feel we may like to submit. Naturally the dominant partner has ideas of her/his own which also must be taken into consideration.
It is true, many submissives do try and run the relationship. It is up to the dominant to take control and lead the relationship into an area which satisfies both partners.
One of my favourite sessions is an Introductory session because I have the opportunity of introducing a complete novice into a new and exciting world, that of the world of Domination and submission.
This body needs to be trained to be the most humble and obedient slave. It is expected that this submissive will be treated as a servant, to be taught to serve, to answer the Mistress's every need. To be taught that submissive slaves are not a part of the human race but a lower life form whose only expectations are service, humiliation and pain. This submissive must be taught total and absolute obedience, so that their only desire is to please their Mistress. The submissive must be taught he is no longer a person but belongs totally to his new owner. To be treated as a domestic pet and beaten when the Mistress desires. This submissive must learn to listen and only speak when spoken to.
This submissive is a slave virgin. He has never been owned before. It is expected that he will need a great deal of coaching but will learn fast.
This slave has no practical experience of the world of bondage. It is expected that this submissive will learn from his new overlord. The following text explains some expectations of this novice. My mentor must take these ideas as a guide only and will always exert control over this slave and not allow this bondage servant to predict the progression of events. This slave is prepared for more than a one night stand, but a continued training into the world of humiliation and bondage.
This novice is like a new born baby, nameless and ignorant. One of the first actions I would like of my Mistress is to choose a name for this slave and initiate this slave into bondage. It is expected that as the education of this slave progresses this slave will take part in a number of ceremonies to mark his progress.
To become a total submissive this slave must be punished by the use of slaps, switches, canes, whips and any other devices the educator may wish to use. Due to the novice status of this slave the acceptable level of pain is unknown. To learn these is one of the excitements of starting this journey.
Humiliation is expected. To be stripped naked and tied at my lady's request. To be forced to wear any clothes that my lady may choose. To be roped, chained and handcuffed at the ankles, writs, knees and neck. To be forced to kneel, to be forced to stand, to be forced to crawl. To have a dog collar placed around my neck and a chain to be locked to the collar. The chain can then be locked to the bed post and this obedient minion be forced to sleep on the floor while his owner sleeps in the bed. This, and more devised by my lady are expected.
If my Mistress wishes, humiliation may take the form of shaving this humble slaves legs. The introduction of other human beings, especially females, may be used to heighten the feelings of humiliation. Further degradation may be induced, if the Mistress wishes, by forcing this slave into a female role.
It is hoped that this slave will be allowed to service his Mistress, to lick and touch her as a reward. To be allowed to masturbate or be masturbated (by females). To be presented to female submissives and forced to have sex with them. And as a very special treat this slave would dearly relish the opportunity to be introduced to a tattooed and/or pierced female submissive and allowed to touch and kiss her unique marks.
This slave is not looking for anal or penis torture, excessive twisting of the knees or lower back or facial marks that will not fade in a couple of hours. This slave does not need alcohol or sex unless it is the wish of the Mistress. This slave is not looking for tattooing or permanent marks to the body. (Though this slave must express inquisitiveness on the subject of piercing.)
This trainee submissive is looking to you Mistress to open up the world of bondage and guide him into the depths of submissive slavehood. Could you please be my teacher?