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Special Considerations for Dominant Clients

Please also check our ethics section

 

• Drugs and Alcohol
  
• Mercy
  
• Verbal Contract
  
• Health Precautions
  
• Bondage
  
• Heavy Discipline
  
• Time of sessions
  
• Respect & Trust
  

 

Drugs and Alcohol

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Under no circumstances will a submissive agree to conduct a session with someone who is intoxicated or under the influence of drugs.

If we are suspicious of your behaviour we have means to detect problems and you would be escorted from the building by our security.

Mercy

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If a submissive says "mercy" or, if gagged, gives a "mercy" signal whatever activity is being carried out MUST CEASE IMMEDIATELY. If this signal is ignored the submissive has the right to leave the room, discontinuing the session.

Verbal Contract

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Salon Kitty's has the best submissives in the country, ranging from those who take light spanking up to those who enjoy heavy discipline (serious marking) and S-M activities. As long as you respect them as individuals they in turn will submit willingly. Please remember there should be no activities included in your session that have not been agreed to by your submissive.

When you undertake a session with a submissive you make a verbal contract prior to the session. If that contract is broken by you by ignoring a "mercy" signal or carrying out an action which was not agreed to by the submissive prior to the session then the submissive has the right to terminate the session. You would not receive a refund. If you are going to carry out verbal or any other type of humiliation this too must be expressed prior to the session.

Similarly, if a submissive does not perform as agreed prior to the session, then you may, depending on the circumstances, receive a refund.

Health Precautions

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Sexual intercourse must be carried out with condoms.

All vibrators, dildoes and butt plugs must be covered with a condom, the actual insertion being carried out with the aid of a lubricant. Disposable gloves are available for anal and vaginal examinations, finger feeling and fisting. These items are clearly displayed in the rooms.

If there is any equipment you require which does not appear to be displayed or clearly available please inform the receptionist.

Bondage

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When placing a submissive into bondage please make sure your bondage is not so tight that you are cutting off her circulation or pinching a nerve. Breast bondage and breast discipline must be carried out with care. NEVER pull on the rings of a submissive so hard as to tear the flesh. Do not place clamps directly over pierced nipples.

Heavy Discipline

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Some of our submissives can tolerate very heavy discipline. If you intend to use a cat on the upper back and breasts where marking can be very obvious you must realise these styles of sessions are priced accordingly. If a lady is rendered unable to work for a few weeks she is not able to carry out such a session for a couple of hundred dollars.

If the administration of discipline is your interest please ask the submissive if she requires a "warm up" first. Not all the submissives need this however it is a good idea to inquire. Please inform the lady if you intend to discipline her hands. A cane or strap administered on the hands can be a long lasting painful experience which can affect her everday activities for quite substantial period of time. You must never hit a submissive in the kidney area with any implement. If you wish to discipline a lady on the backs of her legs or inner thigh area this must be discussed prior to the session as these are very sensitive areas and bruise easily. Genital discipline must also be specifically agreed before the session begins.

Timing of sessions

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Submissive sessions are usually for one hour. If a longer session is required this must be agreed to by the submissive prior to the session.

Respect

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Genuine female submissives are rare. Ladies would not be willing to subject themselves to intense pain, bruises and welts, etc. unless they are genuinely interested. The ladies who choose to conduct submissive sessions at Salon Kitty's have a genuine interest in BDSM activities. Obviously, if you were able to carry out these activities so easily with other female partners you would not be here. Please remember this when you are conducting your session and treat the submissives with the respect they deserve.

Please remember that for you to be able to indulge yourself in these styles of sessions the submissive must be able to trust you, for without that you will not be able to carry out your fantasy. Being dominant does not mean that you must be rude and crude. If you wish to use verbal abuse do mention you will be incorporating this in your session.

Face slapping should never be carried out without the consent of the submissive concerned.

If you respect the submissive's individual levels and the mercy signal, your session should be successful and satisfying for all concerned. The ladies who indulge themselves in this style of session do so because they too have an interest in exploring physical and emotional levels and limitations and are genuine BDSM enthusiasts.