checklist

If you have never ventured into the world of BDSM but would like to explore it this checklist may assist you in deciding which areas may interest you.

If you intend engaging in a scene, whether privately with a lover or partner, or in a commercial establishment with a professional Mistress/submissive the following checklist will assist you and your partner in exploring your particular interests. The items on the first list below have been compiled with a novice in mind, and nothing has been suggested in it which I would consider to be inappropriate for a beginner. By all means use this as a means of introducing yourself to your prospective BDSM partner whether you are indulging in a private or commercial scene.

If you intend visiting Salon Kitty's and you would like to email it to us prior to a visit by all means do so.

You might like to print out this list and check of the items that interest you.

Remember, you are always at liberty to use a safe word. At Salon Kitty's we use the word "mercy" for activities to cease. Mutual consent is paramount.

Checklist:

• Do you see yourself as the Dominant partner, the person who has the position of control?
• Do you see yourself as the submissive partner, the one who relinquishes control?
• Do you usually initiate sex with your partners?
• Are you interested in role play where you and your partner take on a particular role and act out a fantasy?
• Does the idea of humiliation excite you?
• Are you interested in Cross Dressing?, and if yes, do you like to completely transform, i.e. dressing in a wig, full make up, underwear, feminine clothing and high heel shoes?
• .... or do you like to partly transform? i.e. just wear stockings, panties, suspenders, and bra.

Following are some common interests:

Anal stimulation

Anal plugs

Bondage

Breast bondage

Genital bondage

Blindfolds

Body worship

Breast whipping.

Cages (locked inside)

Caning.

Catheterization.

Cock torture (light)

Corsets

Earplugs

Enemas

Exhibitionism

Face slapping

Fisting (anal)

Fisting (vaginal)

Foot worship.

Forced masturbation

Forced public

Gags

Gags (panties)

Genital torture (light)

Golden showers

Hairbrush spanking.

Hand relief.

Head (giving)

Head (receiving)

High heel worship

Hoods

Hot wax

Human toilet

Humiliation

Infantilism

Interrogations

Latex

Leather restraints/clothes

Massage giving

Massage receiving

Nipple tease

Nipple clamps (light)

nudity

Oral sex

Over-the-knee spanking

Orgasm denial

Orgasm control

Pussy worship

Rubber clothing (latex)

Sensory deprivation

Serving as foot stool

Serving dressed as a maid.

Spanking (bare bottom)

Spitting

Slutty clothing

Strap-on-dildo (sucking)

Strap-on-dildo (penetrated)

Strap on bottom

Strap on hands

Suspension

Verbal humiliation

Whipping (soft cat)

Whipping (heavy)